Taking a stern approach to pet training is not always the best route. Taking time and being patient can be far more beneficial for your new puppy and you in the long run. Training is hard and if you are struggling on your own with books and manuals it may be time to seek professional help. Training places and classes are offered in most local cities and local pet stores are a good place to start looking. The cost varies depending on the type of training you are seeking and the time you want to dedicate to the discipline. Make time in your schedule and participate in one class per week to and the benefits out weigh the issues you will have later on in the life of your new puppy.